Peers
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  • Eder: Cheerleaders as both popular and hated
  • Teasing is an 'ambiguous social exchange' whose meaning is determined by social context
    • Functions:
      • enforce social norms (predominantly girls)
      • determine social status (predominantly boys)
    • Sex difference in the functioning of male and female groups with regards to teasing:
      • When the victim gets upset, girls back off, boys intensify
    • New research suggests that bullying increaeses when peer groups are re-establishing themselves after a school transition
      • similar to Savin-Williams' work in summer camps
  • Victimization (bullying) is not ambiguous
    • one distinguishing characteristic is that the victim is upset, but the victimizer is not
  • Statistics:
    • Adolescents more likely to be victims than adults
    • Most likely site for victimization is at school
 

  • Who bullies?
    • 80% of middle school students engage in some bullying
    • Are bullies victims?
    • Characteristics of chronic bullies: low empathy, antisocial
  • Who gets bullied?
    • 80-90% say they are victimized
  • What do kids believe?
    • Most kids believe the victim is at least partly to blame
      • 'wimps', 'nerds', 'afraid to fight back'
      • bullying teaches kids to behave properly
      • being victimized toughens kids
      • asking for help from teachers is useless
        • they won't help
        • it will make things worse
      • only 24% believe that it's none of their business if another child is bullied
  • Active engagement by teachers help